Background: I am a 37 year old man (victim of childhood sexual abuse) with 2 children 8 & 11. My wife is having an affair looking for an easier life and making it so obvious our 8 year old has told me like I have not worked it out. Our 11 year old has just started secondary school and my only support came from the scout movement who nobody will contact. Our 11 year old (a special needs child with a statement) is going off the rails and I have as I saw things just been accused of abusing the lad by his special needs schoolteacher.

I had to (years later) feel for these two. You see the prior head wrote to me suggesting the school had nothing to apologise for and I whilst not even raising my voice flew and was not going to leave it alone until I got an apology.